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Do’s and Dont’s on This Valentine’s Day

We have reached the special occasion of valentines where the people who love each other exchange gifts while making them feel special. It could be your mother, your father, your wife, your fiancé, or anyone whom you love. This day is considered as the special day to show your love by giving Valentine’s Day gifts to your special person. Boys especially celebrate it with their girlfriends but then may find themselves busy with work and other priorities. They often start too late to make Valentine’s Day special for their partner.

Following are the ten do’s and don’ts for Valentine’s Day can definitely help you make this year’s big day even better than ever.

The Valentine’s Day Don’ts

1-Don’t Forget

The worst thing that can happen to you is when you forget all about Valentines. Always, always pull it on your calendar in big letters and save your day for valentines. Make sure to put a reminder in your day planner few days before Valentines or on your Smartphone. If you will put these reminders and everything, it will definitely help you planning ahead to implement some of the do’s on this list will involve some advance thought and effort.

2-Don’t Buy Kitchen Appliances

If you are planning to buy a gift never opt for any kitchen appliances or anything that is practical. Valentines is supposed to be a more of extravagant try to buy something romantic that make your partner feel loved. Choosing gift is quite complicated as you have to think something out of ordinary and nice.

3-Don’t Do The Same Thing You Did Last Time

Change is always better. Therefore, always try to think something new and creative that your partner will appreciate. She should know that you thought about what she likes and considering her you did something different according to her choice on Valentines.

4-Don't Give Her Lingerie Gifts

There are many people who think of giving lingerie gifts to her partner but trust me that’s the worst option you could have. Even Victoria’s Secret will be a big NO as lingerie is really a dangerous gift. It might be possible that you will get the wrong size that would be a big problem and the color of course. When you plan to give lingerie your partner would think that have only one thought in mind and that would definitely backfire. Try to resist your temptations and be a little more creative.

5-Don’t Have Unrealistic Expectations

Never ever think of something unrealistic from your partner. While your partner wants to be pampered, you also have to understand that her day is filled with many demands such as kids, work, house, and more. Make sure to go the extra mile, but keep your expectations realistic and in check.

6-Don’t Overspend

There will more years when you will have to celebrate her birthday or perhaps giving her gifts on special occasions. Hence, never overspend on giving gifts in Valentines especially if you share the bank account and credit card with your loved one, but breaking a bank is a hell of a bad idea. Keep your idea or gifts within your budget and have nicest evening you that you can afford.

7-Don’t Talk About An Ex

Never talk about your ex on Valentine’s Day is essential as talking about it would spoil your evening and your partner will be disappointed with you if you think or talk about another women. Avoid talking about your former wife or girlfriend; keep the conversation focused on your woman and life will be better.

8-Don’t Give Her A Generic Card

Generic card are really common if you want to impress her you can think of the nicest card with a sign of your name. Add a note in the card about how much you love her, how much she means to you, what you can do for her, and other positive feelings you have. She will definitely be amazed to see your efforts and of course the note full of feelings.

9-Don’t Do Guy Stuff

By saying not doing guy stuff we meant not to do things which guys like such as taking her to a sports bar for basketball match or stadium to watch cricket Eww that would be horrible! Don’t do that just don’t stay away from guy stuff and put her first. If you really keen to watch it you can you can always record or DVR the televised game and watch it tomorrow.

10-Don’t Spend The Night Online

Many of us tend to focus on online and spend time on using Facebook, Instagram or any social media stuff, using the computer late at night for chatting, gaming, or something else. On this Valentines, for this one night, leave the computer off and focus on your woman make her feel special. She will be grateful for your undivided attention.

6-Don’t Overspend

There will more years when you will have to celebrate her birthday or perhaps giving her gifts on special occasions. Hence, never overspend on giving gifts in Valentines especially if you share the bank account and credit card with your loved one, but breaking a bank is a hell of a bad idea. Keep your idea or gifts within your budget and have nicest evening you that you can afford.

The Valentine’s Day Do’s

In contrast to what are the things, we should avoid on Valentine’s with our partners there are certain things that you need to consider if you want to make this special day more special for your loved one.

1-Send Gift To Work

Sending gifts is always a good option. You can send your partner a gift if she is employed or to her home as to send her Valentine’s welcome idea. There is an old standby that we have been watching from quite a long time now such as sending flowers, or candies, but you need to think something out of the ordinary, out of the box, something new such as a balloon bouquet or a stuffed animal. It will show her in front of her peers that she is loved and remembered on Valentine's Day.

2-Make Homemade Valentines

Card brought from shops are nice but what if you could make a card of your own? What could be more romantic and sweet than this? Your partner will really appreciate your efforts and time to make your own Valentines card and it would be memorable. Get out the scissors, red construction paper, white paper doilies and glue and get started. Your own little verse would add just the right touch. Taking time to do something out of the ordinary is romantic.

3-Cook For Her

Doing something extraordinary is cooking for her something special and doing something out of the routine that is perhaps is an important way to show how much you care or love her. The best way to incorporate this idea is to Breakfast in bed or cooking a romantic dinner for two that would be both fun and romantic. But please avoid experiment with cooking by choosing a complicated recipe that you have never tried before. This is not the time to take the risk as it can ruin your Valentine’s meals. Try something to cook that you have done before so that she can enjoy the meal.

4-Remember Romance

Valentines is all about romance make your partner feel loved. Put little extra efforts such as dressing up for dinner out, being on time for your commitments, leaving little love notes around.

5-Turn Off The Electronics

While celebrating Valentines is it important to turn off your electronic devices such as cell phones or personal digital assistants running in our life in order to avoid interruptions. Turn off your phones and laptop and focus on your loved one. You can take a camera in order to capture the memories you will be making.

6-Write A Love Letter

Writing love letters to make them feel special remember it's not an email or a text message but a real love letter. Write it in your own handwriting tell her why you love her, why would you chose her all over again. She'll keep that letter as a cherished part of her life.

7-Watch A Chick Flick

You might plan to watch a wrestling game WWF Smackdown or perhaps a latest 007 movie, but she will prefer to watch an online romantic movie. Consider watching romantic movies such as You've Got Mail or Sleepless in Seattle if you are looking for one that you both might enjoy.

8-Offer Her A Message

A massage is a wonderful alternative than many other gifts. Giving women a good foot massage or a relaxing head massage will really make her relax and feel good.

9-Consider Spending Gifts Throughout The Day

Rather than giving one big gift consider her giving gifts throughout the day.

10. Just Relax

While I know these Valentine’s Day ideas sound like a lot of work, it is important to not overdo it. Don't try to cram too much into the day or into the evening. A leisurely pace is an important component of making Valentine's Day treat for your woman.

A little planning for Valentines will go a long way. We hope that our DO’s and Don’ts options will help you to celebrate your Valentines a little more positive and fun. Take the time, make it a priority, and do something out of the ordinary. You will create a fun memory and communicate how much you love her in a way that she might not expect.